Wow it’s been 7 months since I last visited my little domain. I’ve been busting my ass on my other blog, Jealous Sounds, and it’s now a grind. So, you’ll see me more on Cattywampus Universe in the next few months. Gonna broaden my subjects a bit, but they’ll still be the perversion you’ve come… Continue reading I’m Back…
I’ve neglected this blog for far too long, with Jealous Sounds taking up my writing attention. I’ve decided to switch it up a bit, and post on sexual topics in addition to my personal experiences. This is a ripe time to discuss sexuality, with the social and political upheaval occurring not just in the U.S.,… Continue reading Update
Pain without love Pain, I can’t get enough Pain, I like it rough ‘Cause I’d rather feel pain than nothing at all… -3 Doors Down- There comes a time in every slut’s life where she must change course. The usual fare of the sexually strange just isn’t enough. I’m looking out on the vast wasteland… Continue reading Pain..
The new 50 Shades movie comes out in the next few weeks…great. Another incessant barrage of misinformation about BDSM. More confusion about what constitutes consent, and what is abuse. The whole damn thing makes me grumpy. Yeah, I can hear BDSM friends say, “But Z, it brings fresh faces into the lifestyle. Once they get… Continue reading 50 More Shades of Horse Shit
During the free for all days, post widowhood and pre sex worker, I fucked a different guy every night. Not bragging, I’m just being honest. There was one guy who stands out, I’ll call him Mark. His approach to sex was conquer and bail, rough and brutal and pissed off. I never figured out what… Continue reading Angry Sex
So, the month is over for my Social experiment into the BDSM subsection, Findomme. If you go by my first hypothesis, that I could become one in one month, I failed. I didn’t have an interaction that ended in financial gain or connection with a slave. As I’ve considered it longer, though, I’ve learned valuable… Continue reading Findomme: The Aftermath
It’s been a good while since I did a proper post here. I’ve been doing quite bit of digging into BDSM recently. In the middle of my research, I came across a fascinating section of the lifestyle, Findomme Some people are masochistic. They get their pleasure from pain or humiliation. This could be physical, emotional,… Continue reading Ongoing Series: Findomme
Men are more kindred to me than any female friend I’ve had. It’s easier for me to relate to men. All through school I’d play D&D with the guys and avoid the feminine angst of my girlfriends. For much of my life, even as a sex worker, I never felt physical fear of a man…except… Continue reading Threats from Without and Within
Today in a landmark case, BDSM was declared illegal. This is simplistic, but the facts are as follows: A George Mason University student was expelled for sexual assault in 2013. The student was having a consensual BDSM encounter with his submissive, with a prearranged safeword. When the encounter became uncomfortable for the submissive, the dominant… Continue reading BDSM..Is it legal? Right Now….Nope.
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