Sexuality · Swinging

Bi men, porn and swinging.

I have a question: why is it socially acceptable to get hot over bi females but not bi guys? This question was buzzing in my brain during my nightly perusal of XVideos. Trust me, there are dozens of pages of bi MMF of varying quality. Of course, porn in general is not made for female tastes, and this brand of porn wasn’t much different. The action is rough, aggressive, and fast, just like the men jacking off like it. Bodies are perfectly made, no affection to speak of. However, before I digress any further and share my plans to reinvent the porn industry to suit me, I have another beef.
At many of the adult events I’ve attended in the past, the discussions about what is acceptable and sexy always flare up. Many guy friends rave about girl on girl action, about being the meat in the sandwich. Yet, when I share my unabashed love of gay and bi MMF porn, I’m greeted with looks of disgust from the guys. The tables turn when the ladies speak up and agree with me. There was actually a swing party where me and some like minded lady friends actively sought out some bi guys to watch guy on guy play, for a change. Not surprisingly, no takers were to be found. Bi men tend to stay under the radar in the Swing lifestyle, fearing many male halves of a straight couple won’t want to play, fearing being touched. What a pity: I would play with a couple faster if the guy is bi. I’ve  only had the pleasure once….
This couple were younger than us. Both were (and are still) bi. She’s brunette and all curves; he’s tall and slender with a kinda Scott Weiland (mid 90’s) sorta vibe. My husband is comfortable in his manhood, but still wary of this guy. So, I took Mr. Bi hottie to a different bed to keep things uncomplicated. To get to the point: He was one of the best lovers I’ve ever had. He was so comfortable in his own skin. Most first time swing encounters are short and awkward. He took his time, and had skills I hadn’t encountered to that point. Straight men seem to want to prove their prowess, most of the time falling short. He just wanted to touch and see where things went…and, they went very successfully for both of us.           The swing community needs to lighten up about bisexual men in couples. They aren’t out to convert the masses, just to have a good time with like minded couples. I don’t mind! Step right up…

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